Yes, the smaller the wedding guest list. The Cocktailjurken better the wedding for everyone. The bride and groom, the budget, the guest, the memories. Budgetting a wedding can be hard on a bride and groom. Wether the parents of the bride pay for it or the couple pays for it themselves. (More and More these days the couple pays for the wedding themselves.)
It maybe a cliche but it is true "a Bride dreams of this day practically their whole lives." So they what to have the most they can get out of their wedding, and as close as they can get to their dream wedding. Most of the time their dreams are centered on their wedding dress and brides maid dresses, their surroundings, honeymoon and lastly their guest list. The groom in the past didn't have much to say about the process of putting a wedding together but anymore they have their own ideas of what they would like to have at their wedding such as what they ware and where to have their honeymoon.
The bride and groom must asked themselves what is important quantity of guest or quality of the wedding items. Then they need to be clear on the budget. If the budget is running short then cut the guest list. If the bride and groom feel over exposed. then cut bruidsmeisjes jurken the guest list. If they feel the feeling of the guest Sexy Trouwjurken are important then cut the guest list. Memories will be sweeter and fuller. The quality of all of these thing will be high. the wedding will be successful.
In my opinion: The bride and groom will feel more at ease. Their marriage will not start on a finical rocky ground the parents won't go broke. The guest will feel more important and special. The memories will be in abundance. The bride and groom will not feel over whelmed. The best part of any wedding, is to be surrounded by people that care about the couple and to have as much fun as possible. It is not always best to have a small wedding and spend more per head, because then couples will always have the doubt of not being able to tell whether or not more people are going to show up than what they have planned, and if there is going to be enough food to feed all of their guest.
Having a big wedding can actually be an advantage for many couples, because even though they do not have as many guest coming to their wedding as the max amount allowed on their wedding budget, they'll know that those who are coming and maybe bringing more than one guest will be taken care of during the party. The thing about having a small wedding, and a strict budget is that people do not always stay for the entire duration of the wedding, and there are times when guests also do not take advantage of everything that they are offered at the wedding, so the couple basically pays for food or other things that are not going to be used during the wedding.
A wedding should be a special time for a couple, and so they shouldn't have to spend too much money on each person that comes to their wedding, but just enough on the things that will make the day special for them. Everything else can wait, and all of the other guests can just be there to wish the happy couple a happy life, and the couple wouldn't have to pay as much money for their wedding and they can actually save more money for their honeymoon.
The biggest problem that many couples have when they want to spend more on a bigger wedding and just concentrate on spending more money per head, is that the majority of the time, many of the guest that RSVP'd do not show up and others bring in more guest along with them. So, in many cases, either people do not get to eat, or many guest will not eat because they do not like the food, or they simply do not stick around long enough to eat.
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